‘Eid Mubarak!

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

while i bake for tomorrow insha’Allah…

How the Salaf Observed Ramadhaan

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

just click on the link below insha’Allah:

How the Salaf Observed Ramadhaan

My day… today!

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

Day before ‘Eid, an happy but sad day at the same time… it’s such a mix of emotions when you find out that “tomorrow is ‘Eid”… stop fasting, stop “feeling” the Ramadhaan… isn’t it?

As soon as I found out that the day after was going to be ‘Eid (today) it started to rain subhanaAllah! I’ve noticed that this happens every year… Allahu Akbar! And with the rain, I started to plan for the morning after… Last night I couldn’t sleep… too excited!!!

Wake up, shower, get everyone ready (I’m always the last one :lol: ), have breakfast and go to the masjid. The town was empty, Sunday morning, just Muslims all around… the prayer (and the only one masha’Allah) was at 8 o’clock. It was so nice to see all those happy faces… shaking hands, hugs… sweet moments masha’Allah! Sisters that you didn’t have the chance to meet for the whole month, we were all there :)

Back home, to spend some nice family time and FINALLY make the tiramisu I’ve been talking about for days before ‘Eid :lol: By the way, I’ve just tasted it and it’s delicious masha’Allah! I wish I could give you a piece ;)

…  taqabbalAllahu minna wa minkhum, insha’Allah!!! Eid Mubarak to all of you!!!!

Much better than what expected

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

Eid will be soon insha’Allah and if I have to give a “feedback” about this Ramadhaan well, alhamdulillah! Much much better than what I expected before it started!

I’ve been able to practice my ibaadah masha’Allah, I haven’t thought about what to cook and how to organize my time (thing that anyway I never do! I just catch the moment and in “that moment” I start to organize myself… if that makes sense :roll: ). We have been surrounded by muslims alhamdulillah, sometimes for ‘iftar and sometimes at the masjid.. what a blessing masha’Allah! Some have been for ‘Umrah ans some left to spend the rest of Ramadhaan back home insha’Allah!

One of my best friends and sister in Islam left me to go to Algeria! Cheater! In a very algerian style they made the tickets just 2 days before travelling and I knew it while she was at the travel agency…. :lol: khayr insha’Allah!

I really can’t spend Ramadhaan away from my home, with my habits and my life style. I live every day of Ramadhaan very carefully, every time I have some spare time I read some Qur’an or I try to do something to live the Ramadhaan. If I was away I know I would be lazy or busy in some useless stuff.

Talked with some sisters about Eid celebration and Eid meal… nothing in my mind yet but I’m sure I won’t be spending the day before making cakes… maybe just a simple tiramisu’ insha’Allah ;)

So far… a broken pot

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

how is your Ramadhaan going? Khayr insha’Allah for everything!

Here in south London I’m having a kind of different Ramadhaan this year, under every point of view alhamdulillah! I feel always busy, always have something to do or to make (even if in my home, for iftar, we eat a little alhamdulillah).

I’m feeling every single minute of it masha’Allah! Then the athmosphere with my sisters in Islam at ICT… masha’Allah! The time spent while fasting trying to memorize … and then, when you are tested… you forgot everything!!!!!!

Well, the title of this post is not about this but what happened to me yesterday. I show you the picture of my lovely ex pot, the one I was always using to make shorba, harira and any kind of soup. The following is an Olives’ harira ;)

olives harira

I was so proud of that pot :(

….yesterday, at around 6:30 pm, while I was ready to blend the soup, the pot broke down!!!!!!!!!!! And iftar here is at about 7:50pm… so no time to make another one! The whole base felt down and the soup with it! I had some harira all around the cooker and IN the cooker! You should have seen my face when it happened and to be honest, I wasn’t worried about the soup but about the fact that I had to clean afterwards!! In all this, we had some guests!! Alhamdulillah I had some shorba that my neighbour gave me the day before, so I had to sacrifice it for my guests,  insha’Allah she’ll get more rewards ;)

I leave you now, I need to get things ready and taraweeh is about to start in Mekka insha’Allah…. saha ‘ftorekhum!

Ready… Steady… GOOOO!!!

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh!!!

Well, what to say, another Ramadhaan is going to start insha’Allah, all the hopes, wishes and thoughts with it! Everything seems “ready” to welcome our old friend, a friend that makes us happy, makes us smile, reunites us, insha’Allah!

Yesterday I’ve been the whole day “mentally” busy subhanaAllah, thinking “is it tomorrow?… is it going to start on Saturday?”, leaving my laptop on until late, waiting for some “news”, time to time checking Central Mosque website, ICT website and so on…. Until I’ve read the announcement “London Muslim Forum would like to wish you Ramadan Mubarak, Saturday 22nd August 2009 is the first day of Ramadan 1430″ … so I relaxed alhamdulillah!

I hope this Ramadhaan will be accepted for all of us, will make us a better Ummah and reunites us under the deen of al-Islaam, insha’Allah!!

The rightly guided predecessors (As-Salif As-Salih) used to seek the forgiveness of Allaah and repent so much so that it was reported that they would supplicate to Allaah for six months that He would allow them to reach Ramadaan. If He allowed them to reach Ramadaan, they would fast, pray at night and supplicate for the next six months that He accepts the month of Ramadaan from them [A Successfull Ramadhaan - Shaykh Saalih Al Fawzaan]



Ramadhaan: A Reminder of Unity

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

I don’t know if for you is the same but in my home, the night before the beginning of Ramadhaan, is a “Yes” or “No” of Questions about the sighting of the moon and if this or that mosque is starting tomorrow or not followed by a number of phone calls :roll: When I think about it I smile subhanAllah! Every year is the same, we shouldn’t think like that but since last year, I’ve started to take it with a smile :D

Anyway, today I came across this nice article masha’Allah that I hope will make an end to the “Ramadhaan Start’s Questioning” insha’Allah!!

By Shaykh Muhammad Nasirud-Deen al-Albaanee
The month of Ramadaan should be a reminder to the Muslims about the disunity amongst their ranks.

So the Sharee’ah dos not give any weight to the individual opinion in matters concerning ’ibaadah jamaa’iyyah (collective acts of worship); such as Fasting, -‘Eed, and Prayer in congregation – even if the opinion is correct, from one angle.)

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Aboo Hurayrah (radiyallaahu ’anhu) related that the Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said: “Fast when they fast, end the fast when they end theirs, and sacrifice the day that thy sacrifice. ” [2]


Al-Bayhaqee relates by way of Aboo Haneefah, who said: ’Alee Ibnul-Aqmar related to me, from Masrooq, who said: I entered upon ’Aa‘ishah on the day of ’Arafah, so she said: “Serve Masrooq with some gruel, and make it more sweeter.” Masrooq said: Nothing prevented me from fasting this day except that I feared that it may be the day of Sacrifice. So ’Aaishah said to me: “The day of Sacrifice is when the people sacrifice, and the day of ending the fast is when the people end their fast.”


This chain of narration is jayyid (good), due to what has preceded.


UNDERSTANDING THE HADEETH


Imaam at-Tirmidthee says after quoting the hadeeth:


“One of the People of Knowledge has explained this hadeeth by saying: Its meaning is to fast and end the fast along with the Jamaa’ah and the majority of people.”

As-San’aanee said in Sublus-Salaam (2/72):


“In this (hadeeth) is a proof that being in agreement with the people is accepted in establishing the ’Eed, and that the individual person who believes that it is the day of ’Eed - because of sighting the moon – then it is obligatory upon him to be in agreement with the people, and that the ruling of the people – concerning the Prayer, breaking the fast, and sacrificing – is binding upon that individual.”


Ibnul-Qayyim (rahimahullaah) mentioned this meaning in Tahdheebus-Sunan (3/214), and said: “It is said: In it is a refutation of those who say that whosoever knows the positions of the moon you due to astronomical calculations, then it is permissible for him to fast and end the fast, even if others do not know. It is also said: ‘that the individual witness who sees the moon, but the qaadee (judge) has not accepted his testimony, then there is no fasting for him, just as there is no fasting for the people.”


Abul-Hasan as-Sindee said in Haashiyah ’alaa Ibn Maajah, after mentioning the hadeeth of Aboo Hurayrah which was related by at Tirmidthee: “And its apparent meaning is: That there is no room for individual (opinions) to enter into these affairs, nor to act individually in this. Rather, this affair goes back to the Imaam (the Leader of the Muslims) and the Jamaa’ah (united body of Muslims under the Imaam). It is obligatory upon the individuals to follow the Imaam and the Jamaa’ah. From this is that if an individual sights the moon, but the qaadee rejects his witness, then the individual has no right in these matters, but rather he must follow the Jamaa’ah in this.”


And this is the meaning which is evident from the hadeeth, and which is emphasized by the fact that ’Aa‘ishah (radiyallaahu ’anhaa) used it with Masrooq when he prevented himself from fasting on the day of ’Arafah, fearing that it could be the day of Sacrifice. So she explained to him that there is no weight given to his individual opinion in this, and that he should follow the Jamaa’ah. So she said to him: “The day of Sacrifice is when the people sacrifice, and the day of ending the fast is when the people end their fast.’’


And this is what is befitting for the easy-natured and tolerant Sharee’ah (Prescribed Islaamic law), one of the goals of which is uniting the people together, unifying their ranks and keeping away from them all that would split their comprehensive unity – from the individual opinions. So the Sharee’ah dos not give any weight to the individual opinion in matters concerning ’ibaadah jamaa’iyyah (collective acts of worship); such as Fasting, -‘Eed, and Prayer in congregation – even if the opinion is correct, from one angle. Do you not see that the Sahaabah (the Companions) (radiyallaahu ’anhum) used to pray behind each other. So from them were those who held the view that touching a woman, or the flowing of blood from the body invalidates the wudhoo’ (ablution), along with those who did not hold this view. From them were those who would complete the Prayer whilst travelling, whilst others shortened. Yet these, and other such differences, did not prevent them from collectively praying behind a single Imaam and deeming it to be acceptable. And this is because they knew that tafarruq (splitting-up) in the Religion is more evil than having ikhtilaaf (differences) in some opinions. Indeed, the matter with one of them reached the extent that he would not even deem acceptable any opinion which differed with the great Imaam in the major gatherings; such as the gathering at Minaa (during Hajj), to the extent that he would totally abandon acting upon his opinion in that gathering – fleeing from that which could result from this evil, because of acting according to his own opinion.


Thus, Aboo Daawood relates (1/307) that ’Uthmaan (radiyallaahu ’anhu) prayed four rak’ahs at Minaa, so ’Abdullaah Ibn Mas’ood criticised him saying: “I prayed two rak’ahs with the Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam), and two rak’ahs with Aboo Bakr, and two rak’ahs with ’Umar, and two rak’ahs with ’Uthmaan in the beginning of his rule, then he completed it (i.e. by praying four rak’ahs). After that the ways became divided with you all. So I hope from these four rak’ahs, that two of them would be accepted.” Then Ibn Mas’ood prayed four rak’ahs. So it was said to him: You criticised ’Uthmaan, yet you prayed four? So he said: “Differing is evil.”


So those who continue splitting-up with regards to the Prayer, and who refuse to follow the local Imaams in some mosques – especially in the wilt Prayer during Ramadhaan – using as proof that this is against their madhhab (school of thought), then they should reflect upon the above mentioned hadeeth and athar (narration). Likewise, those who claim knowledge of astronomy and who, due to their opinion, fast and end their fast alone – preceding or lagging behind the majority of Muslims, not seeing any problem in doing so – should also reflect upon the previously quoted proofs. So all of them should consider, and reflect upon the knowledge that has been mentioned. Perhaps they will find for themselves a cure for their ignorance and self-delusion, so that they may then become a unified rank along with their Muslim brothers – for indeed the Hand of Allaah is over the Jamaa’ah.


Footnotes:


[1] Silsilatul-Ahaadeethus-Saheehah (1/442-445), the hadeeth authentication has been abridged and edited.

[2] Saheeh: Related by at-Tirmidthee (2/37). Shaykh al-Albaanee authenticated it in as-Saheehah (no.224)

taken from troid.org

Shabaan: action!

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

for the first time in my life as a Muslim, I’ve started to give importance, real importance, to the month of Shabaan! Alhamdulillah! I’m honest with you: I don’t know if it was due to work but in the past years I wasn’t so excited about “Shabaan” as I am now!

I planned to start last Thursday and I was so “READY” for it and then, on Wednesday night, subhanAllah, I had a strong nasal decongestion, sinus related anyway (I always have troubles with it, alhamdulillah). It was too late to get something from the pharmacy or so, I tried anything: lemon&honey, hot drinks, paracetamol… nothing :( I was soooooooo upset!!! But then I accepted the Qad’r and decided to start on Monday (which was yesterday). And alhamdulillah I made it!!!!

It wasn’t that hard as I thought, since maghrib here is at 9pm but maybe I could have eaten better for suhoor… Allahu a’alam! And again I’m honest with you, the only thing that I miss while fasting is the morning’s cup of coffee!! :oops:   But the strange thing, this time, has been that when I’ve broken the fast I’ve thought only about ‘sweets’  such as cakes, chocolate or anything like that. Infact I’ve just eaten a few spoons of soup and then off to the fridge looking for the strawberry cheesecake :P Could it be because of b/feeding? :roll:

Anyway, I think that the month of Shabaan is a great opportunity for us to revive the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) and also a good “training” to get ready for Ramadhaan insha’Allah!

I want to mention a nice post written by Umm Haajar: Pratical Preparation for Ramadan …. happy reading!

Muslim (1156) narrated that Abu Salamah said: “I asked ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) about the fasting of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and she said: ‘He used to fast until we thought that he would always fast, then he would not fast until we thought that he would always not fast, but I never saw him fast in any month more than he fasted in Sha’baan. He used to fast all of Sha’baan, and he used to fast all of Sha’baan apart from a few days.’”


Starting again

As salamu alaykum wa’ rahmatullahi wa’ barakatuhu!

And here we are again, alhamdulillah! Most of us were “off” during this “Eid week” mash’Allah and I hope you all had a wondeful day insh’Allah! I went to the Eid Prayer in Streatham Mosque and mash’Allah tabarakAllah! I loved it! :D The khutba before the prayer has been great mash’Allah and I wish all the possible barakah for the Imam insh’Allah! All those sisters mash’Allah waiting silently for the prayer and listening to the khutba and the feeling when I left the mosque… mash’Allah really! :D

Then, from maghrib of Eid (here in London we celebrated on Tuesday the 30th of September) I felt the Ramadhan leaving my body… well not my heart (as I hope to keep it always there insh’Allah) and all the athmosphere has changed subhan’Allah. Don’t know if it’s just me but I realized that the weather has changed too! During Ramadhan we had some sunny days and now back to the grey english weather but alhamdulillah!

Well and when Ramadhan leaves… Shaytaan comes back, doesn’t he? Subhan’Allah I’ve noticed already lots of anger among people and, what made me more sad, it’s that I saw this among Muslims too! :(

Muslims arguing with each other about (in my opinion) silly things, wasting time and words in rude ways too. I really really would love to remind the importance of the good manners and brotherhood! We should wish the best for each other, do not think bad about one another, no backbiting! And this also if your opinions about the religion are different! I’ve noticed this among sisters (obviously) and I don’t know if it happens among brothers too and I wish to know if you noticed that too in the countries where you live, subhan’Allah!

“Go, both of you, to Fir’aun (Pharaoh), verily, he has transgressed (all bounds in disbelief and disobedience and behaved as an arrogant and as a tyrant). “And speak to him mildly, perhaps he may accept admonition or fear Allâh.” (Ta-Ha 20: 43 – 44)

“And by the Mercy of Allâh, you dealt with them gently. And had you been severe and harsh hearted, they would have broken away from about you; so pass over (their faults), and ask (Allâh’s) Forgiveness for them; and consult them in the affairs. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allâh, certainly, Allâh loves those who put their trust (in Him).” (Aali Imran 3:159)

And from some Hadeeths:

Narrated ‘Aisha: The Jews used to greet the Prophet by saying, “As-Samu ‘Alaika (i.e., death be upon you), so I understood what they said, and I said to them, “As-Samu ‘alaikum wal-la’na (i.e. Death and Allah’s Curse be upon you).” The Prophet said, “Be gentle and calm, O ‘Aisha, as Allah likes gentleness in all affairs.” I said, “O Allah’s Prophet! Didn’t you hear what they said?” He said, “Didn’t you hear me answering them back by saying, ‘Alaikum (i.e., the same be upon you)?” [Sahih Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 75, Number 404]

Narrated Aisha: A man asked permission to see the Prophet. He said, “Let Him come in; What an evil man of the tribe he is! (Or, What an evil brother of the tribe he is).” But when he entered, the Prophet spoke to him gently in a polite manner. I said to him, “O Allah’s Apostle! You have said what you have said, then you spoke to him in a very gentle and polite manner? The Prophet said, “The worse people, in the sight of Allah are those whom the people leave (undisturbed) to save themselves from their dirty language.” [Sahih Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 73, Number 152]

Ready for the last ten nights?

As salamu alaykum wa’ rahmatullahi wa’ barakatuhu!

Narrated by Aisha (ra), Allah’s Apostle (saws) said, “Search for the Night of Qadr in the odd nights of the last ten days of Ramadhan” [Bukhari n.1896]

Are you ready for the last ten nights then? I think I’m …. or maybe I’m not. You know, you often think you are not doing enough to please Allah and feel guilty if you forget to do something. So I’m planning this year, maybe trying to read some more Qur’an in arabic…(maybe only the Surahs that I know), doing more dhikr during those nights.. and most important thing, I think, it’s to go to sleep straight after taraweeh and wake up for the night prayer insh’Allah!

Narrated by Aisha (ra), “With the start of the last ten days of Ramadhan, the Prophet (saws) used to tighten his waist belt (i.e. work hard) and used to pray all the night, and used to keep his family awake for the prayers” [Bukhari n. 1903]

Narrated by Abdullah bin Umar (ra), “Allah’s Apostle used to practise Itikaf in the last ten days of the month of Ramadhan” [Bukhari n. 1904]

I’ve never met a sister who did Itikaf, I really wish to meet one insh’Allah. It must be a wonderful experience mash’Allah, you alone with Allah and nothing else to think about, nothing bothering you about the dunya. One day insh’Allah I hope to experience it myself!. Maybe we think too much about the world around us and our daily duties at home, so we don’t give ourselves a chance to try it, just following our imaan! Don’t know, I really think it shouldn’t be that difficult if planned in advance then Allahu a’alam!

So lets get started for our chance of Laylat al Qad’r, insh’Allah!

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